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my first Valentine's after my first relationship

my first valentines since you left and it hurts to think of you with another. Do you ever think of me as I think of you, I wonder. I never truly believed in soul ties until we made ours together. Yet here I sit holding one end of a rope untethered while you make another. my only plans this weekend our babysitting some children while two people who love each other enough to commit to each other continue a connection built over time and compromise. I wish you had loved me as much as you say you did. instead of comparing me women online and your fears of being alone. someone who is too afraid to commit is afraid of being alone but the jokes on you cause women want exactly what you are afraid of. I flip between thinking I wouldnt take you back and also thinking if you actually came back and changed thinking I'd say yes quicker than a breath. I know you won't and I'm slowly coming to terms with it but it still hurts hard some days. this heartbreak was harder than losing my mothe...
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2024 been a year...

 I haven't posted in a few years and honestly I don't remember the last time I wrote anything. But let me try to update this blog that no one reads. In 2018 my brother passed away. In 2019 I went through a harrowing experience where I became very sick and almost died. Well technically I coded which means I did die but they were able to revive me. I had to relearn how to walk. Which was super frustrating as 26 year old. Then in 2020 I became an aunt again to a little boy this time. Then 2021 COVID changed the world. 2022 my mother and best friend passed away and in 2023 I met a guy who changed my life in so many ways. And I wanna marry him! Here's to the rest of 2024!

Life is Grand with God on your side!

Life update: My brother passed away. I am still trying to get on with my life without him. We just cleaned out his room completely...we cried a lot... but I feel like there was at least one weight lifted off of me. Unfortunately every time I go out and do something fun. I remember that Ethan is not there for it, but being at home also reminds me that he is not here either.. I lose either way. So I have been...distracting my self and distancing myself from people but also making as many memories as possible cause you never know when is your last moment with your loved ones. this blog is for me to post photos and tell my feelings in one way that I truly cannot any other way. objectively. So enjoy my adventures with my family!

Ethan David

On Saturday it will have been 24 weeks. 24 weeks since my whole life changed. On Thursday March 1st I came home from a particularly long day at work. I don't recall at all what made me so tired but I came home and started to eat some pizza not paying much attention to my family. What i do remember is what happened over the next 2 days... When I noticed my oldest brother and mother seemed worried. My sister in law was at a ladies night and my niece was running around like always. That is when I registered that Ethan my 2nd brother didn't feel good...he didn't eat. Didn't get up at all. Had chills since the previous night. We called 911 and he went to the ER long story short his body shut down and saturday morning he passed away. It has been hard moving on with life without your big brother especially since we all live together. I miss you bubba! RIP Ethan David Miller

A Dream is a Wish your Heart Makes...Faith helps make it happen

I have always told people that s ometimes life may not seem fair, but you just have to try your hardest and realize God has a plan for you somewhere.. I have always had faith in that belief and I always will. Whether you have to run around and seem crazy sometimes, or just let go and try something else it will be taken care of. If you want something to happen hard enough anything can happen. Whether you are struggling physically or mentally, financially or spiritually God has you in His hands. I wrote this over a year ago... I thought i should post it!

It is February!

It is February 4th, 2017! It has been 5 months since my niece was born and my family and my life will never be the same! Thank the LORD! I have some interesting news most people close to me know this but I wrote a book! I am self publishing and it should be live on Amazon to buy any day now! I am so excited! Toodle-loo!

Update on life!

Hey so it has been awhile since an update! I am working on getting my Lead Teacher certification for my work at a learning center! It is so much fun teaching and working with young kids! And some exciting news, I am gonna be an aunt! I am so stoked for my little niece to arrive in August! It is our first niece or nephew in my family! Also I am working a lot with the church family still! Life is good!